If you can, great: you have more potential partners to choose from.
(Some people don't have a choice-someone with a centaur fetish is going to have to settle for non-centaur.) So you might want to change the preference settings on your Grindr and Scruff accounts and experiment with a few guys who aren't stacked-just to see if you can click with guys who don't live at the gym. That said, THINMAN, many people get with/fall in love with/build lives with partners who aren't their physical ideals.
